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Dating in college can be quite the adventure. You’re meeting attractive and interesting people around every corner, getting asked out and asking more people out than you ever would’ve in high school, all the while taking a full course load and running around with your friends. The following tips will help you to keep it all straight as you embark on the whirlwind that is college dating.

Explore your options without hurting people. Dating a few different people at once is fun and quite common in college. Just be sure that the people you’re dating are aware that the relationship isn’t exclusive.
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Realize that when someone asks you out, this in no way means that the two of you are boyfriend and girlfriend, contrary to the rules of high school dating. Hanging out with someone for the night is just a way of testing out the waters and does not constitute a serious commitment.
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Know the person you’re dating before you put yourself in a compromising situation. This goes for the ladies especially. Just because you met a really cute guy at a friend’s party doesn’t mean that he’s a nice guy who you should go home with.
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Honor your friendships. If one of your best friends just went out with someone who is now going after you, talk to you friend before making a move. The general rule is that your friends’ recent dates or hook-ups are probably off limits to you for at least a little while.
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Keep your priorities straight. While dating in college can definitely be a large part of your undergraduate experience, make sure to go to class, do your work and hang out with your friends as well.

You don’t have to be young and cute to be attractive, nor do you have to flaunt your physical attributes. As you age, you will find that more people equate “mature” with “sexy” and “sophisticated.” This article discusses way in which you can be sexy while still being mature.

Leave something to the imagination and dress conservatively. Instead of trying to squeeze into that mini-skirt from two decades ago, opt for a more tailored look. Try slim fitting pants paired with a feminine blouse and matching flats or heels. Finish the look with a strand of pearls and a chic handbag.

Keep yourself looking polished. A sexy woman understands the allure of looking complete without appearing overdone. Skip that thick, caked-on makeup and go for a more natural look, instead. Wear your hair in a style that flatters your face and is easy to maintain. Take good care of your hands and nails.

Have confidence in yourself and act intelligently. Many men find mature women sexy because they carry themselves with pride. Instead of relying on their body to sell themselves, women who are mature draw upon their high self-esteem and intelligence to garner a man’s attention.

Be nice, but be genuine. Sometimes self-confidence can be too sexy and scare away potential suitors. Many men want a sexy and mature woman who is also approachable. Act kind and considerate towards others. Melt his heart by being sexy and compassionate.

Act refined. Remember to use your manners when in social situations and control yourself.

You want to hang out with your new sweetie. Your parents want you to get good grades. It can be hard to do both, but it’s not impossible!

When your significant other (SO) has work, class, or wants to spend time with his/her friends, bust out your homework! You can be productive and keep yourself from missing him/her at the same time.

Have a study date. You can both work on your homework side-by-side, or else you can do your homework while your SO reads a book. Got an exam coming up? Your SO can quiz you. It’s a lot easier to remember what “anaerobic” means when your sweetie explains it than when your professor drones on about it.

If necessary, prioritize. Take a full day to concentrate on that portfolio you’ve been putting off all semester, and reward yourselves with dinner and a movie the night after you turn it in. Your sweetie will be there on Monday, but your chances for getting an A won’t be.

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There are many people that they didnt know what they feel from the person whom they want and like most… it’s love??? or obsession or obsessive love so Lets define and obsession or obsessive love and try to realize in your love life what you feel towards that person whom we want and life most..

Obsessive love is a form of love where one person is emotionally obsessed with another.

rejection is the trigger of obsessive love - also known as love addiction or relationship addiction. They state four conditions to help identify it, namely, a painful and all-consuming preoccupation with a real or wished-for lover, an insatiable longing either to possess or be possessed by the target of their obsession, rejection by or physical and/or emotional unavailability of their target, and being driven to behave in self-defeating ways by this rejection or unavailability.Two characteristics indicative of obsessive love are:

• Obsessive lovers believe that only the person they fixate on can make them feel happy and fulfilled.
• Persons close to the love-obsessed can also be greatly affected. Witnessing a friend or family member suffer from the disorder can be distressing.

The dangers of obsessive love

Obsessive love is a delusion, and therefore can lead to dangerous consequences. Extreme obsessive love can be the cause of stalking, rape, suicide, and murder, among other things.

Love represents a range of emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction. The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

As an abstract concept love usually refers to a strong, ineffable feeling towards another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.

So with those things that i shared to you i hope you will ow realize what is your real feeling towards the person whom you love?? or whom you obsess with??

Me?? I’m so sure that I feel love towards with the person i love most..

LOVE and not obsessive love..

with the person that I love…

breaking up is hard to do. Whether you’re dating someone with low self-esteem or someone with a big fat ego, you may worry that dumping him will leave him shocked and devastated, with feelings of worthlessness or even serious depression. You want out, but you don’t want to hurt your partner! How do you break up with someone without harming his or her fragile self-esteem?

Be Decisive

If you aren’t right for the company you work for, would you rather be fired right away or have your bosses keep you on but constantly yell at you, withhold your paychecks, and maybe even divert your 401(k) to another employee?

While breaking up can be awkward, if you keep your boyfriend or girlfriend around just because you dread the breakup conversation, then you’re just going to wind up becoming bitter toward this person for not taking the hint. She might fool herself for quite a while that the relationship is working because she’s blinded by love (or fear). But your desire to be rid of the ol’ ball and chain will cause more fights and more damage to her sense of self. It may even cause you to start exploring other avenues of dating before you’ve left your current Lover’s Lane, a situation that will be especially devastating to her self-esteem if she finds out.

If you’re absolutely certain that you’re miserable in the relationship, don’t drag things out to the point where you’ve beaten your partner’s self-esteem into the ground. Make up your mind that breaking up is the right thing. Be polite but resolute that things need to stop here and now. It’s far better for the other person to have things end with a bang than with death by a thousand cuts.

Don’t Make Weak Excuses

A lot of times, our exit strategy from a relationship is hard to explain in ways that aren’t hurtful. So we tell a big lie, often a variation of “It’s not you, it’s me.” Or we may say vague things we don’t really mean, like, “I just don’t want to date somebody my own age” or, “I need to take some time to think about my path in life,” because saying, “I’m sick of your laziness!” is just too honest.

There’s nothing wrong with being civil during a breakup or even omitting certain details that would be needlessly cruel. But if you make a weak excuse, something that’s not definitive, your ex might not believe the breakup is really final. He may think he can win you back by fixing something about himself, and expend even more self-destructive energy failing to win you over by changing his hairstyle and music collection. Or he may take your word that you’re “taking a break,” and then feel devastated when, after spending two weeks thinking about your paths in life, he spots you on a date with your tennis instructor.

If you’re breaking up and don’t want to crush the other person’s self-esteem, it’s best to say something firm, something that lets her know that it’s over because you’re incompatible. It’s okay to talk about the fundamental differences between the two of you: “You like to go out and I like to stay in” or, “I need somebody who thinks of her career the same way I do.” Let your partner know that you don’t believe this gap is something she will be able to bridge so that attempting to stay in more often or to get a new job is no longer an option. It’s too late, you’re leaving, but it’s not because she’s a terrible person. It’s just because you have different goals and needs.

Give Your Partner Space to Grieve

Many psychologists say that losing a lover to a breakup is similar to losing her to death. A person who was so integral to us has been ripped away, never to return, and it hurts in the way that death hurts us. In some ways it’s worse, because when the person who breaks up with us is always around, it’s like being haunted by a ghost of lost love.

If you break up with someone, you may be shocked by how lonely you are at first or by how much you miss the good things about the person, even if you don’t miss the romance. But don’t make the mistake of constantly reconnecting or trying to stay friends immediately after a breakup. For sure, people who once dated can become great friends, but only if there’s a period of time in which they are allowed to heal and accept that they now lead separate lives.

If you feel that you would like to stay friends with your ex, it might be a good idea to set boundaries, or at least a schedule, immediately after the breakup happens. Perhaps there’s an upcoming event, like a social gathering, where you can agree to meet up and say hi, preferably in a month or two. Until then, refrain from phone calls, emails, IMs, and walking near his or her work.

Of course, you can’t stop a person from calling or emailing you. And you shouldn’t feel like a shut-in who’s not allowed to go out because your ex is everywhere you want to be! But keep as much distance as rationality allows. Screen your calls and set up your IM program so that you don’t show up as online — that way your ex won’t wonder what you’re doing online at 1 a.m. If you must respond to emails, do so quickly and politely in a way that lets your ex know that you care, but that you are maintaining distance — something as simple as, “I’m doing well, keeping busy. I’ll say hi in two weeks at Jake’s house.” That lets him know that you are maintaining distance without being rude about it and doesn’t ask him any questions that would invite a dialogue.

No Breakup Sex!

It almost goes without saying, but one of the most harmful things you can do after a breakup is to sleep with your ex. You may find yourself comforted by temporarily reconnecting with a partner. You may even find him more attractive now that you don’t have to see his baseball hat collection or pretend to enjoy her cooking!

But resist that self-destructive urge. Sex with an ex can loosen boundaries of all kinds and possibly pull you back into the relationship in some way. But for the person who didn’t get to make the decision to break up, it promises on an emotional level that some kind of closeness still exists, closeness that you’re not really interested in having anymore. So in its aftermath, the other person may emotionally relive all the horrors of the original breakup, leaving her depressed a second time and really hurting her self-esteem. In fact, it may lead her to think that she’s not worth much as a human being if her body is good enough for you but her soul isn’t. Sex with an ex is a bad idea all around, so avoid it.

No matter how you handle it, breaking up with someone will leave wounds. But if you make the breakup a firm, one-time thing and allow time to heal before trying to be friends later, you’ll affirm your ex as a person, even if you reject the potential for a relationship. And that kind of respect and love (on a human level) will minimize the chances of bruising your partner’s ego on the way out the door.

Before you get insulted by the title of this piece, we’d like to first compliment you on the choices you’ve made. You’ve taken the initiative to set up a profile, upload a photo, and put yourself out there, and that is no small feat. It takes gumption to be able to show the world who you are, and for that we give you kudos.

After all, this new world of online profiles isn’t exactly easy to navigate. Many people struggle with the amount of information they should put on their profile. Others wonder whether they should post a picture, and if so, which one? Should you post the photo that makes you look like an absolute 10, or the one that makes you look 10 pounds thinner?

We aren’t going to pull any punches here: how you look in your photo does matter. But not in the way you think. More often than not, your looks aren’t the deciding factor in whether or not you’re going to make a friend or score a date. What matters is what you are doing in your picture; in other words, how you present yourself to the world.

You may think it’s crazy, but it’s true: you don’t have to be the best-looking person on the site to meet people; you just have to represent yourself well. Check out the list below for examples of photos that you shouldn’t post under any circumstances.

Photo #1: You’re at a Bar Drinking with Your Friends

In an effort to come off as fun and well-liked, many people post pictures of themselves drinking at a bar with their friends. Big mistake. Pictures that show you drinking at a bar don’t make you look entertaining, fun, or special; they make you look like a barfly.

The snapshot may have been taken on the one night you go out all year, but the people on the other side of cyberspace don’t know that. What they see is that you like to go out drinking with your friends. That’s your priority. Something you do often. If that’s the persona you’d like to reflect, fine. But know that drinking has lost its luster for most people over a certain age.

Photo #2: You’ve Cut Out Your Ex

We’ve all been tempted to do it, but cutting your ex out of a picture and then posting it online is a bad idea for a number of reasons. For starters, every time you check out your profile and see that picture, you’re going to think of your ex. After all, he or she used to be standing right next to you! Second, in the age of digital photography, there’s no reason why you can’t easily take another picture where you look just as good. Or better!

If you absolutely must crop your ex out of a photo, do it right and cut him or her completely out of the picture. Don’t leave a big square in the middle where a face used to be.

Photo #3: You’re Standing Next to a Celebrity

This phenomenon is a little less common than the others, but it does happen. If you do happen to have a picture of yourself with a celebrity, don’t post it. It won’t make you look more important or more alluring. You’ll just look like a person standing next to a celebrity.

Photo #4: You’re Dressed as a Superhero

We get that some people really like to dress up in costumes even when it isn’t Halloween. There are many social events and social circles where this is accepted and encouraged, and more power to people who find their niche in the world. However, while your friends may understand your penchant for dressing like the original Superman at Comic-Con, most people perusing your profile won’t.

We aren’t suggesting that you make an effort to—excuse the pun—disguise who you are. In fact, any person who’s worth your time will delight in your quirkiness. But when you’re putting yourself out there, it’s best to save the fun photos for later on down the road.

Photo #5: You’re Posing with Something Expensive

To give the profile photograph some perspective, you’ve decided it would be a good idea to pose next to your brand-new luxury car. Surely no one will be able to resist someone who’s leaning against a BMW, right? Wrong.

When you pose next to one of your toys or stand in a way that shows off your Hermes bag, you come off as superficial. When it comes down to it, no one wants to be with someone who cares more about things than people.

There is a caveat, however: if your hobbies include tinkering with or collecting expensive toys, it’s okay to include them in your profile picture. Just make sure you are trying to represent you, not your net worth.

Regardless of how handsome or dashing they seem, there are men out there that just spell trouble when it comes to having a serious relationship. It’s not that they’re bad boys or heartbreakers; they’re just not commitment material.

Why, you ask? Well the answer basically comes down to lifestyle. Whether the “avoidables” know it or not, the way they live isn’t conducive to having a girlfriend. There’s just not enough room for a person of the opposite sex.

The good news is that unlike a lot of other “deal breakers,” the traits that make some men avoidable are completely…well, avoidable. All that’s needed is a reality check and some conscious decisions. Until then, we present 5 Types of Men that Women Avoid.

1) The Man-Child

This guy is clinging to his glory days when life was less complicated and responsibility was minimal. He’s obsessed with Guitar Hero, frequently attends keg parties and considers pizza one of the major food groups.

As a gateway back to youth, the Man-Child is fun for a date or two, but the problem is that he’s not going anywhere. This adolescent-adult has problems holding onto jobs and is more interested in living the life of a fraternity brother than making a serious commitment. Women are inclined to ditch The Man-Child until he grows up a little bit and learns to live life in the real world.

2) The Roving-Eye Guy

This guy is constantly looking at every female but the one he’s with. He ogles the barrista, the woman at the bus stop, even his buddy’s wife, making his date feel inferior and unattractive. Most of us will agree that men are inclined to admire beautiful women (and vice versa) but let’s face it: Recognizing beauty and disrespectfully rubbernecking are two completely different things.

Constantly competing for your partner’s attention gets old really fast. If a man’s smarmy smile, inappropriate comments/gestures and keen interest in others are too distracting to the relationship, women pick up and move along. Even the most confident women want their men to treat them like they are the only one in the room.

3) The Cheapskate

You don’t have to be labeled a “gold digger” to recognize the difference between a man who’s frugal and one who’s downright miserly. You know the type: he brings coupons to the first date or parks 17 blocks away to avoid paying a $4 valet (or both). Ah yes, this “avoidable” is known as the cheapskate.

Now, there is nothing wrong with a guy shopping for the best deal and being conservative with his money. However, if every activity is all about finding the stingiest alternative, nothing is ever fun.

Repeatedly counting change, stealing food from work and rationing toilet paper may seem quirky or sweet at first, but this behavior is indicative of future headaches. When it comes down to it, this guy has control issues.

4) Mr. Gadget

The gadget guy is always toting the latest toys for big boys. He has the hottest phone, a high-speed boat, a decked-out luxury car, and the newest Harley (for those weekend drives). In other words, this guy has a lot of material things keeping him busy. As a grown-up kid who can’t resist the new plaything of the moment, he has a hard time keeping his attention on women. After all, who can compete with technology when it changes at lightning speed?

Whether he is out to impress others, or he constantly needs to trade up to feed his own ego, this guy cares more about stuff than people. (Bad sign.) With this kind of outlook, women who date Mr. Gadget are often left wondering if an upgraded model will make them obsolete.

5) The Mama’s Boy

The Mama’s Boy probably still lives with his parents in their house, allowing Mom to launder his clothes, make his bed and cook his meals. (In many cultures, it’s not unusual to live with one’s parents forever, so living at home isn’t necessarily a deal breaker.) However, when a man delights in being waited on hand-and-foot by his mom, there’s trouble.

Mama’s Boys expect their girlfriends to cater to them endlessly and they never understand why that would be a problem. Most women realize that instead of trying to raise the man over again, it’s better to leave the parenting to his indulgent mother.

Finding Mr. Right

In all fairness, these guys aren’t all bad and maybe they just need a patient partner to come in and show them the light. Just because he relishes saving money, loves his mama and delights in playing Grand Theft Auto IV until dawn, all that doesn’t make him unworthy of a relationship. However, women avoid these challenging fellows because they still have some growing to do.

Remember, not everyone will come into your life ready-made, but there’s a difference between dusting off a diamond and fighting a battle you’re never going to win.

Horse racing is an equestrian sport that has been practiced over the centuries; the chariot races of Roman times are an early example, as is the contest of the steeds of the god Odin and the giant Hrungnir in Norse mythology. It is often inextricably associated with gambling. The common nickname for horse racing is The Sport of Kings.

Now a days there are people who are in this kind of game. Many people like this kind of racing because for them they found money in here by betting.

But there are some people they find horse racing as their sports or some of them treated their horses as their pets and their lives…

Well for these people who really love horses and what to have their own horse… horses for sale horse classifieds … and there are lots of free horse ads for you.. so what are we waiting for??? go! go! go! find your new horse…

Me and my boyfriend loves shopping very much either it is window shopping, online shopping and real out shopping. I am very particular with the quality and price of a certain product while my boyfriend is very particular of brand of a certain product…

Now our aniversary is approaching so i need to buy a gift item for our aniversary. Ever since my boo loves music so much, rock, pop rnb, alternatives and acoustic… so I decided to having shopping online at my favorite shop stop at Shopwiki were i can find the most affordable and quality products. So i decided to brought a ipod as a aniversary gift for him and put his most favorite musics and our team songs…

And now I am so excited to wrap and cant wait for our aniversary so that I can give my cutie gift. opss.. before that I have here one product which I saw at shopwiki while I do online shoping with it,  I discover this amazing style of shoes that makes me so amazed.. in fairness the shoes was so cute so I decided to brought it and keep with me..

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